Exploring Whether You Might Be Autistic

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Exploring Whether You Might Be Autistic

A structured place to gather your thoughts. This is reflection, not a test — it can't diagnose you, and there's no score that means yes or no. It's useful whether or not you ever pursue a formal assessment.

No score, no verdict: Autistic traits overlap with other experiences like burnout, anxiety, and trauma, and everyone has a few of these traits. This isn't about passing or failing a checklist — it's about understanding your own pattern, across your whole life.

Your history

What were you like as a child — socially, with the senses, with routines and interests? What did adults notice or worry about?

e.g. Whatever you remember, or have been told.

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Which traits have been there your whole life, versus things that arrived later?

e.g. Lifelong patterns matter here.

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Social and communication

How do social situations feel — before, during, and after? What feels effortful that others seem to find easy?

e.g. Conversations, groups, small talk, eye contact, reading people...

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Sensory and routines

What sensory things soothe or overwhelm you? How do you feel about routine and change?

e.g. Sounds, lights, textures, food, plans changing...

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Masking

Many late-identified people — especially women and gender-diverse folks — have masked for years, copying others and hiding overwhelm. It's a big reason they get missed.

Do you perform or hide parts of yourself to get by? What does that cost you?

e.g. What you do to 'pass', and how you feel afterward.

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Interests

Are there subjects or activities you dive into deeply? What's that like for you?

e.g. The things you could happily lose hours in.

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Pulling it together

Overall, how much does the autistic experience resonate with your life? (1 = not really, 10 = deeply)

Rate from 1 to 10: ____

If you described your pattern to someone in a few sentences, what would you say?

e.g. Your experience, in your own words.

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A gentle note: If you'd like a more structured starting point, validated self-reflection screeners like the AQ or RAADS-R exist — but they're conversation-starters, not diagnoses. This worksheet is a learning tool, not an assessment or treatment. Only a qualified professional can make a formal diagnosis, and your self-knowledge is real and valid either way.

Go deeper

Ready for more? These lessons pick up where this worksheet leaves off.

Reading Your Own History, from Self-Identification. A structured re-examination of a life you have already lived — and the document an assessor will actually ask you for.
The Criteria, in Plain Language, from Self-Identification. What the diagnostic criteria for autism and ADHD actually say, translated, with the parts a questionnaire cannot reach made concrete.
How to Read an Autism Screener (and What a Score Can't Tell You), from Autistic Self-Discovery. What a screening questionnaire measures, and why a positive result means look closer, not case closed.
Self-Identification and Assessment, from The Neurodivergent Brain. The two valid paths to knowing you're neurodivergent: self-ID and professional assessment, what an adult assessment involves, and the emotional arc.